Sex Matters

Myth: Women aren’t as sexually charged as men.
Fact: On average, women think about sex around 10 times a day, compared to about 19 times a day for men. But here’s the twist, women often think about it for longer stretches. A guy might see someone gorgeous on the street, picture sex for a moment, and then move on. A woman might spot someone attractive and let that fantasy linger for hours. And when women want sex, we’re just as sexually charged as men, we just don’t have the obvious “tent-pitching” visual signs to give us away.
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There are so many fun and unique ways women experience sex and arousal that men don’t, and those differences can completely transform what happens between the sheets. Remember, sex shouldn’t be painful, and it’s absolutely okay to savor every moment even if you don’t orgasm.

If penetration alone doesn’t get you there, experiment with other methods, like rubbing your clit during penetration or adding nipple play while your partner explores other hot spots. You might be surprised at just how much it changes the experience.